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From: Sue in NJ
Dear Professors HELP me - Sue, checking in, in a total panic. Am I really a MOMMY in the making??? While I answered the questionnaire with a score of 2 - I hardly consider myself my boyfriend's Mommy. Yes I do cook for him - but I am a trained Gourmet Cook. No, I do not do his laundry (he does it) But yes, I do arrange for the dry cleaning to be dropped off and picked up. My whites must be laundered regularly. No I am not his TIME Clock - he has an active life - as do I - in fact other than Sunday's we rarely see each other more than for the morning "YA KNOW" and the nightly "sleep aide"
I consider this behavior to be BALANCE to a relationship - is it really some pre-set notion by the mind molesters that is prepping me to be his mommy - Say it ain't so?
His Mommy didn't ride a motorcycle. I do - and would never want him to get rid of his. I can't speak to the sexual interaction he witnessed between his parents but I reckon it was minimal (comparing it to my parents who have been married some 35+ years and I never HEARD any heavy breathing from under their door).
Please help me to CHANGE my mommy-istic ways.
Sue,
We are here to help, but you need very little.
The good news is that you scored a meager 2 on the test and are already guarding against the Mommy Mindset. The bad news is the little chunk of Mommy within you is what has you so interested in what level of Mommy you may be and even comparing your sex life to that of his parents.
Keep riding your mot-guzzi and continue with your conjugal “sedatives” and you should be just fine.
-Prof. Krinbring-